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The idea of moving to a new school can be frightening for some children. In fact, it can be frightening for parents. Fortunately, there are many things which parents and the school can do to help alleviate some of the fears.

First, parents can contact the school which the child is leaving to make sure that all records, both academic and medical, are sent ahead to the new school.

Second, when you arrive at the new location, call the school and ask for an appointment with the principal or the school counselor. Attend this meeting with your child so that both you and your child become familiar with the activities, the personnel, and the building. Write down any questions which your and your child have about the new school. Then you can be assured of leaving this meeting with as much valuable information as possible--especially the information you wanted.

Be aware that schools have written material that they can provide for you. The student handbook, which contains school policies and procedures, is available. If your child is a secondary student, the school might lend you a yearbook from the previous year so that you and your youngster can discover information about all the classes, clubs, activities, and sports which are available.

When school personnel are setting up your child's schedule, be sure to inform them of any talents, interests, or special needs your child may have in particular areas. Share as much information about your child as possible so that classes in which your child is placed are not below or beyond his or her ability.

Try to talk as much as possible with your child about his or her fears before school starts. Help your child to understand that you will do everything you can to get him or her started on the right foot. Explain also that the school has had new students before, and that school personnel are prepared to help.

Stay in contact with your child's teachers. They will call if they note any problems. But you may feel better if you call to see how teachers feel your child is adjusting. And you can seek their help if you feel it's necessary.

Friends are an important part of a young person's life. So try to encourage your child to join some organizations or to participate in a sport. This will help your child meet other people with similar interests.

Going to a new school can be frightening. It can also be fun and exciting. When home and school work together, going to a new school can be a surprisingly wonderful experience.

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